10 Tips For Giving A Women Lingerie

Notice to lovers: in a few days it's Valentine's Day. If some may be tempted to complain about what can be perceived as an imposed appointment, there is still something to be happy about because it is the perfect opportunity to spend a moment together for two. an evening. And it is up to everyone to make this evening unique, by breaking out of our love routine and redoubling our imagination. In this, offering lingerie is necessarily a good idea! This year, we imagined a subject that we produced in collaboration with Aubade, a lingerie brand which has always known how to address both women and men and which continues to make us dream.

1. Identify the correct size

Over the years, many of us have acquired some knowledge on the subject and already know that the size of a bra is based on two measures: that of the depth of the cup and that of the chest size. The first corresponds to the identification of a letter going from A for a small breast, to the letters E or F for the most generous breasts. The second in the form of a number, measures his chest circumference in centimeters which can range from 80 to 100 cm or more. The easiest way to find out your measurements would be to go discreetly rummage in your underwear drawer and see the size on one of the labels of a bra. This little investigation is also valid for determining the size of the bottom to choose. Generally, it is advisable to select the size just above the one she usually takes for her pants. Although almost all stores offer to exchange items if the size is not suitable, she will appreciate (just like you) to receive a set that she can quickly put on. It would be a shame to upset your partner by choosing a size 40 thong when she is a small 36 (or vice versa).

2. Take into account its morphology

When we come across a model that we like (us men), we do not always take into consideration the factors related to the morphology of the one who will wear it. However, this aspect is extremely important because it will guarantee good comfort while allowing to highlight each of the curves of the loved one. Some guidelines concerning the shapes of the underwear will be welcome:

The shapes of the bras

Small to medium chest: depending on what she usually wears, a very light triangle shape or, on the contrary, a push-up or ampliform model to raise and bring the chest closer would be quite suitable.

Medium to full-blown chest: a half-cup or balconette model that will slightly raise the chest while pushing it up will be preferred.

Generous to voluminous chest: it all depends on the type of shape she usually wears, but a more covering model will guarantee better support. A basket model can also be quite suitable for your other half.

The shapes of panties and stockings

Panties : the most classic shape covering the buttocks while revealing the curves thereof. It is generally suitable for all types of body types.


Shorty : enough coverage on the hips, it will tend to break a small and petite silhouette.

Thong : generally thin on the sides, it completely frees the buttocks and makes it possible to enhance slightly pronounced buttocks.

Tanga : intermediate between the thong and the panties, it covers just half of the buttocks while accentuating their roundness. It will sublimate the hips already well designed.

3. Take into account your skin and hair color

In addition to the morphological characteristics of your partner to be taken into consideration, it is relevant to choose an adornment color that will certainly sublimate her. If she has very white skin, she might not necessarily appreciate receiving a neon green outfit, for example. Here are some recommendations to consider.

According to his skin

Fair skin  : Tender and soft shades will be more indicated than bright and pronounced colors.

Dark skin : regardless of her hair color, all colors will suit her except pastel shades which will make her look gray.

Black skin : she can afford everything, from pastel shades to the most vibrant colors, through all types of lace and patterns.

According to her hair color

Blonde hair : it goes perfectly with pastel shades or cool colors like blue.

Red hair : red will suit her perfectly, as will green or blue.

Chestnut to brown hair : the warm colors will suit him perfectly.

4. Have a minimum of the lexicon of lingerie

Because mastery of the lexical field of fine lingerie is not innate for everyone, here are some indications to distinguish the models that dot the shelves of dedicated shops:

Underwire : construction of a bra in the form of whales, rigid semicircles inserted in fabric loops located under the breasts, ensuring firm support for the breasts.

Corset  : the accessory that refines the silhouette to create an hourglass figure brings together in one piece the bra, the bustier and the garter belt. To make sure you are viewing it properly, we have included a very meaningful photo of the famous basque (see below).

Garter belt : underwear around the hips like a belt with ribbons, themselves fitted with small clips used to tie stockings.

Bodysuit  : this underwear assembled in one piece covers the whole body. It replaces the bra and panties. It is often slipped on from the top and buttoned at the crotch. It is a piece that has come back in fashion in recent years.

Nightie  : the little light dress, a little sexy for the night, thin straps version often in silk or satin.

Camisole  : this is a small top or tank top with lace that can be worn during the day under clothes or in the evening to sleep with a matching shorty.

5. For a new relationship

In the case of a newly established relationship, the idea is to choose something quite classic that is sure to please her. It might sound a little daring and create some uneasiness to select an ultra sexy set. While trying to find a model that will perfectly match his personality, think above all about his comfort. 

At this point, it seems reasonable to opt for a relatively demure nightie or a bodysuit that she can wear under her clothes. These two options remain timeless and chic while still revealing a little bit of lace here and there. All in good time and if your relationship continues, you can consider incorporating a little more extravagance in your future choices!

6. For a more established relationship

Have you passed the milestone where you met? It's time to shift into second gear and consider some sexier lingerie. Provided, of course, that it corresponds somewhat to his tastes and desires. The choice must be kept classy so that she does not feel like she is wearing the costume of an adult film actress. For example, you can consider choosing a pretty set (matching bra and stockings). If the budget allows it, opt for two stockings: 

Classic panties or boxer briefs and a lower covering such as thong or tanga. The bodysuit or the nightie are basics that will always please too. However, don't skimp on details, lace or transparency.

7. For a long-standing relationship

Your love has lasted for years and with your partner you form a rather uninhibited couple? This is the opportunity to spice up your relationship even more! Offer her a little ole ole lingerie (while remaining chic) ​​like the pieces offered in the famous Aubade desire boxes.

Pay particular attention to lingerie that will be adapted to its morphology and to a common desire for naughty play. If so, a multitude of options are available to you! Starting with the sexy set with the opening bra, the slit thong, the nippies (or nipple covers), anything is possible. There is also the famous garter belt which comes with stockings, and which can be sold with the complete lingerie set. After.

8. Bring nice underwear too

On great occasions, great means! Yes, exit the old faded and distorted boxer shorts that have been lying around in our drawer for some time now! If we have the idea of ​​making her happy by offering her a very feminine set that will sublimate her figure, there is no reason that we do not make a little effort on our side. 

We are not going to lie to each other, a pretty fine lace in front of an old relaxed boxer brief would produce a deplorable contrast. Two solutions are then available to us: take out of the closet her secret weapon (which only we have the secret and it is preferable that the mystery remains intact), or invest in a new boxer by selecting a model that she will appreciate, which will surprise her. and which can even match with the set you have just given him!

9. Find the place and the words to offer it

We sometimes overlook the importance of seizing the right moment to offer the slightly naughty lingerie set that we have unearthed for her. It would be quite inappropriate to hand her the package along with an "I have a little surprise for you" when she takes the chicken out of the fridge or we just finished chopping the onions for dinner. It will be a question of defining the right moment to offer her lingerie. Without imagining an ultra romantic staging worthy of a Hollywood movie set, holding out your package at the end of a dinner organized around a beautiful table against a background of subdued light can have its effect. In the event that the evening takes place at a restaurant, it is better to wait until the return home to present him his gift. In general, to be sure to take advantage of the moment.

10. Take your time to undress her

Come on, let's not lie to each other, this coveted set isn't just for her. Ultimately, it's a bit of a gift to yourself. After having toured the lingerie stores, hesitated 15 minutes in front of three models, then doubted between an 85B or a 90B, the time has come to savor your triumph. The phase mobilizing our imagination gives way to reality. So go there delicately, revel in this moment by slowly undressing her and going through each of the curves of her body. Let's take the time to appreciate the pretty feminine underwear a bit sexy that sublimate the chosen one of our hearts.

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